Beating a dead horse, but...
If people are seriously interested, just sign up for Coursera. There's no excuse not to check it out. It's free. It uses Octave, also free (essentially Matlab for free), and very easy to program. There are a few homework assignments where you actually implement regularized regression (both linear and logistic). Not just calling a stats function, but literally implementing a cost function, multiplying matrices, etc. It seems as good an introduction as you're likely to get with actual hands-on programming experience. There are discussion forums on the site that I believe are even moderated by students taking the actual course at Stanford and help answer questions online.
Does Coursera have some kind of weird stigma around here? There are over 100,000 people that take the ML course. I actually have a weekly study group in SF for it, that anyone is invited to:
http://www.meetup.com/Coursera/San-Francisco-CA/943222/
Don't talk about learning it. Just go out and do it! There's really no excuse, again, if you're *actually* interested in learning something.